Happy November.

To support you in being F.I.R.S.T. (Future-Ready. Innovative. Relevant. Strategic. Trusted.), here's 1 tip and 1 quote.

The F.I.R.S.T. Tip

Do you often feel easily triggered by people or situations?

This might be because your “red line”—the limit of what you can tolerate before reacting—is drawn too close. When your red line is too close, you’re more likely to feel on edge, quick to anger, and find it difficult to set healthy boundaries. By pushing your red line further out, you create a buffer zone allowing you to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively.

The benefits of pushing out your red line are:

  1. Clarity through Conversation: When triggered, it’s easy to make assumptions about others’ intentions. But taking the time to have an open, curious conversation can help you gain clarity and perspective.
  2. Speak up respectfully: If something bothers you, don't stay silent. Express your feelings gently and respectfully to prevent resentment from building up.
  3. Give feedback. Rather than bottling up your thoughts and feelings, provide constructive feedback. This not only advocates your needs but also strengthens the relationship.
  4. Take time for self-care. A wider buffer zone allows you to pause, take a deep breath, and take care of your physical, emotional, and mental wellbeing before reacting.
  5. Say no: It's okay to set boundaries and decline requests or invitations that don't serve you. In fact, it's essential for your wellbeing.

So, the next time you feel triggered, pause and ask yourself: "Is my red line drawn too close?" If so, take a deep breath and consciously push it further out. You’ll likely feel calmer and more centered.

The F.I.R.S.T. Quote

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